Rule number one in hip hop and R&B: Loyalty first. The enemy of a friend is your enemy, too, especially if the friend is also black.
Color-coded loyalty seems to be the default every time a black celebrity faces the firing squad of public opinion. In the black community, and particularly with black musicians, stars tend to support their own unwaveringly — unless their own also happens to be part of the LGBTQ ranks.
As the outrage over openly gay singer and Pose star Billy Porter’s tuxedo gown on the red carpet at the 2019 Oscars showed, one of the greatest sins a black performer, or a black man in general, can commit within the community is not conforming to traditional gender standards. Many black commentators, like Judge Joe Brown and YouTube personality Willie D, characterized Porter’s attire as an affront to black masculinity.
Nipsey Hussle, the rapper who was shot to death on March 31 at age 33, might have agreed. There’s no positive spin to put on his 2018 Instagram post in which he included homosexuality as one of the top-three scourges on black manhood. Alongside a group photo of black male youths wearing suits and tuxedos, Hussle wrote:
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In a follow-up tweet, he alluded to a gay “agenda” that apparently has rendered straight black men invisible and endangered.
I don’t look down on gay people I love all Gods children foreal. I take issue with the larger agenda.and I’m VERY WELL INFORMED contrary to my appearance. And my conclusion is there’s AN AGENDA…we can go fact for fact and get u some understanding if you’d like. If not God bless https://t.co/DvewsKGojS
— THA GREAT (@NipseyHussle) January 9, 2018
I acknowledge the work Hussle did on behalf of straight black people, but as a gay black man, I have a hard time with the hero worship and posthumous tributes that continue to pour in for a guy who characterized me as a blemish on blackness. Why didn’t he extend his benevolence to LGBTQ blacks? In swathes of the black community, why are gays treated like second-class blacks, undeserving of the first-class status demanded from white people?
Pretty much everything else is forgivable when blacks judge blacks. We saw the double standard in action during the murder trial of O.J. Simpson in the ’90s. The groundswell of support for him within the black community still seems unfathomable more than two decades later.
We saw it again with Chris Brown after he assaulted his then-girlfriend Rihanna in 2009. His standing in R&B was virtually untarnished as various artists, including female ones like Mary J. Blige, Brandy, and even Rihanna herself, continued to flock to him as a collaborator.
We saw it last year when few black musical artists other than John Legend, a Hussle collaborator and celebrity eulogizer, were willing to go on the record condemning Kanye West for his “Slavery was a choice” declaration, or Kevin Hart when his past homophobic tweets and comedy routine killed his chance at hosting the 2019 Oscars.
At the time of his murder, Hussle’s chart tally included no hit singles and no gold and platinum albums, yet he’s been canonized like an A-list superstar. Kendrick Lamar, Sean “Puffy” Combs, and GLAAD’s 2019 Vanguard Award honorees Beyoncé and Jay-Z are among the hip hop and R&B luminaries who have paid tribute to him. Many of his fellow rappers, including Snoop Dogg, The Game, and T.I. called for the firing of Fox News host Laura Ingraham after she “disrespected” Hussle by mocking “FDT” (“F–k Donald Trump”), his 2016 collaboration with YG, on air the day after his memorial.
They have a point. Just because you can’t legally defame a dead person doesn’t mean the living should have carte blanche to ridicule the deceased. But respecting those who have passed doesn’t mean we have to whitewash the darkness right out of their lives.
We’ve seen days of reckoning recently for Michael Jackson a decade after his death, but Oprah Winfrey and After Neverland notwithstanding, his black fans and fellow black celebrities have been more than likely to remain #TeamMichael. Meanwhile, it’s been mostly up to R. Kelly’s white past collaborators like Lady Gaga and Celine Dion to publicly ostracize him.
Much like XXXTentacion last year, Hussle’s homophobic leanings have been buried in all of the glowing post mortems. His offenses against the LGBTQ community might not be as grave as those of XXXTentacion, who once boasted about nearly beating to death a fellow prison inmate he thought was coming on to him, but that doesn’t mean we must unquestioningly and unconditionally accept the heroic humanitarian portrait of Hussle that the hip hop and R&B community has painted since his passing.
Why aren’t we even acknowledging his homophobia? It’s at the root of so much black-on-black crime, yet we rarely regard it as the threat that it is. Hussle never really had to answer for his demonizing of gay black men. He equated black homosexuality with violence and abandonment in his 2018 Instagram post, and he’s still being hailed as a fallen hero, no questions asked.
The black community often has been accused of being egregiously homophobic in thoughts and deeds, and the silence seems to back this up. Rappers get away with homophobic and anti-LGBTQ lyrics while homophobia on social media is swept under the proverbial rug. Racism and cultural appropriation are, apparently, far more pressing issues, than hatred and violence directed toward LGBTQ blacks.
The ongoing Jussie Smollett controversy underscores the glaring double standard. Regardless of whether he lied about being attacked by two “MAGA” shouting white men on the deserted streets of Chicago last January 31, one wonders what the reaction from the black community would have been if Smollett were straight. The MAGA crowd probably would have side-eyed it just as emphatically, but would black comedians like Chris Rock and Tracy Morgan have been so quick to joke about it? It’s almost as if the ride-or-die rule in black entertainment applies only if you’re a straight black man — or a legend like Michael Jackson.
Racist whites often counter “Black Lives Matter” with “All Lives Matter.” Misguided though that might be, perhaps amending is in order. “All Black Lives Matter”? Sometimes it feels like they don’t to too many in the community.
Until we get to a place of complete inclusion, internal discrimination will continue to divide and conquer us. All the humanitarian efforts in the world can’t save us from outside forces if we won’t save us from ourselves.
Apolodorus
Preach!
Danbie
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Donston
I really don’t get where he was coming from as far as the whole “trying to snuff out straight black men” claims. There aren’t any openly gay black male stars in music. And even the ones that have hinted to having homo-leaning romantic, sexual, affection, relationship passions and interests (like Frank Ocean and Tyler the Creator) still don’t make overtly homoerotic, homo-romantic, “pro-gay” music and don’t have unabashedly “queer” public images. Maybe he was offended by the amount of black men in entertainment that aren’t entirely heterosexual. But that’s the entertainment industry for you.
jasentylar
I agree, but I never see the point in going after anyone once they’re dead. This was done when President Bush died. It just seems beneath us and a waste of time. There are more important battles to be fault than the war on revisionist history.
Donston
I agree. But I look at the article as more about general homophobia and how casual and acceptable it is the “hip hop world” more so than an article about Nipsy.
Wicked Dickie
Homophobia is in country music, rock music, pop music, tejano music. Don’t (but do) understand why the author needs to write a story vilifying Nipsey, who, to the best of my knowledge, didn’t use homophobic lyrics.
DCguy
So in other words, if someone was a bigot, a thief, a murderer, whatever other crimes someone can do to harm people etc… we should just let media lie and rewrite history so that everybody was wonderful?
Vince
@Wicked Dickie. Please girl. Country and rock music is just a drop in the bucket compared to Rap. I get it that you like him but you’re turning a blind eye and making bad comparisons. You probably still argue that OJ and MJ is innocent.
Kangol
@WickedDickie, you’re right that homophobes and anti-gay rhetoric exist in many musical genres, but the fact remains, NipseyHussle attacked Black gay men and instead of apologizing, doubled down on it. He didn’t need to use anti-gay lyrics, he went after Black gay men directly. I feel bad for his life partner and kids, and saddened that another young Black man was senselessly shot dead, but I am not going to excuse his homophobia.
Prax07
Was he even a well known “artist” before he was killed? Up until the news uproar after it happened I’d never once heard of him.
Wicked Dickie
It’s called “cultural circle”. Just like some, most, all gay guys can name 5 to 8 drag queens, he was known in hip-hop circles. I don’t know why Queerty would run a story about someone who was murdered by a jealous friend, leaving behind a daughter and girlfriend, not to mention many friends and family that loved him, and made it seem like he was Eminem who did numerous songs with the word f*ggot mentioned numerous times in it. This story is on the wrong page.
Heywood Jablowme
Right – I’d never heard of him before, so I hadn’t heard about his homophobia either (so I’m interested to read about his homophobia now, this is all new to me).
But I gotta admit this part is funny – “GOD IS WITH US WHO CAN GO AGAINST US ??” – sounds like he’s “sampling” Kaiser Wilhelm II, wtf. They always drag God into everything.
Kangol
Yes, he was. He gained a lot of attention for his anthem with YG, *F*ck Donald Trump.* Of course you wouldn’t know who he was.
Dnooage
I agree there is an agenda.
It’s not about ‘Black men’ though.
Men of color are preferred to be Gay or femme presenting by mainstream media.
It renders them second class and keeps them from being a love interest or “alpha males”.
The intention is the issue not queerness.
DCguy
Considering that most of the articles about him were written by black authors please explain.
Black Pegasus
Wait what? An article by Jeremy Hilligar that makes sense?
Lordt..
Vince
Wait a minute now. You mean to tell me this barely literate gangsta rapper was homophobic? Get out of here. Lol
Never heard of him but rappers getting shot in the hood is just another day I thought. 🙂
Kangol
He was quite “literate.” But good try!
Vince
So I went over to my Spotify to check the guy out. If you like listening to somebody yelling at you with some lame-ass synthesized noise you’re going to love it. 😉
Kangol
@Pete/@JasonSmeds/@Brian, etc., and racist, right-wing white misogynists like you post crap like what you posted over and over.
kiriakis1
Self-hating is more apt. He’s been to Europe, don’t you know? So his default positions are always anti-black and anti-American.
Evji108
Never heard of him till he got croaked. And his manner of death was a hip hop cliche. Bye Felicia.
draven
Hip hop seem to set out from its beginnings to try to destroy everything that was happy and gay! I’m a black gay never been in the closet alpha male. I never let anyone or anything try to treat me like a second class citizen. That’s goes for family, so called friends,, media, etc.