Prop 8 Supporter Maureen Mullarkey Still Hiding Behind ‘But I’m An Artist!’ Defense

maureenmullarkeyart Last month we told you the story of Maureen Mullarkey, the New York-based artist who in the 1990s looked to drag queens for inspiration — and also donated cash to support Prop 8. In a brief statement she gave to the press when they came calling to ask why she was among just four New Yorkers who donated more than $500 to strip gay Californians from their right to marry, she responded, “Artists are not in the habit of imposing ideological conformity on one another or demanding it from others. Moreover, regard for individual gay persons does not require assent to a politicized assault on bedrock social reality and the common good.” Now that she’s had time to collect her thoughts, Mullarkey shares her experience of being on the receiving end of everyone calling for her head. After the San Francisco Chronicle published publicly available data of Prop 8 supporters (names, home addresses, and cash amounts), Mullarkey, writing in The Weekly Standard, says:
Emails started coming. Heavy with epithets and ad hominems, most in the you-disgust-me vein. Several accused me, personally, of denying the sender his single chance at happiness after a life of unrelieved oppression and second-class citizenship. Some were anonymous but a sizable number were signed, an indication of confidence in collective clout that belied howls of victimhood. New York’s Gay City News asked for an interview because I was “one of only four New Yorkers who contributed more than $500.” I ignored the request, trashed the emails, and forgot about them. But the West Coast bureau chief of the New York Daily News did not forget. One night in early February, I drove home to find two cars, two men, waiting for me, unannounced, in the dark. Reporters for the Daily News, they were publishing a story on me and Prop 8 the next day and wanted a live quotation. Serious interviews are arranged ahead of time. Besides, I had filed enough newspaper pieces on deadline to know that copy is well into the can at 7 P.M. This was intimidation, not fact-gathering. Where is the story, I asked, if I have not said anything? The response was: “We have documents.” Sound familiar? For half a second, I thought of saying that Prop 8 left intact all the legal advantages of civil union. It took nothing away. But I was too surprised by having been singled out. After a few heated words–none of them equal to what, in hindsight, I wish I had said–I went into the house. Next day, I discovered in the Daily News that I am known as a painter of gays and lesbians; gay activists felt betrayed by my contribution. It was a sparse article. The only accurate quotation to appear was a sentence cribbed from my own website, which seems to be the “document” from which the story was spun. (The sentence, from an old interview about a gallery show of my paintings, referred to New York’s gay pride parade as “an erotic celebration loosed for a day to keep us all mindful that Dionysus is alive, powerful and under our own porch.”) Compensating for the interview that never took place, the reporter constructed an exchange over the question he obviously wanted to ask but never got the chance. The article reads: When asked how she could have donated money to fight gay marriage after making money from her depictions of gays, she just said, “So?” Set aside the non sequitur. The question was an undisguised indictment that triggered a barrage of virulent mail and threats of blacklisting. Suddenly, I was “a vampire on the gay community” who should be put out of business. As one note put it: “Your career is over, you nasty piece of s–. F– off! WHORE!”
And where did Mullarkey feel that left her?
I was up there now with Halliburton and Big Oil, a class enemy. The brownshirts came out in force. Within 24 hours, the “story” spread from one gay website to another, even to Vancouver (“Typical greedy American bigot”), France, and Belgium. My home address and email were repeated in comment sections in which readers egged each other on to “make the bitch pay.” Militants trawled for editors and gallerists I had worked with to warn them that “the Gay Community is looking at our adversaries and those who may support them.” (One former editor blind-copied me his exchange with an aspiring storm trooper who threatened a boycott for those “having an association” with me.)
An artist whose livelihood and right to create is secured by the First Amendment, Mullarkey then has this to say about others who exercise their same rights:
It is one thing to read hate-filled mail on a computer screen. It is something else to have it in hand. At the end of the week, when it started coming to my house, I filed a police report. Until now, donating to a cause did not open private citizens to a battery of invective and jackboot tactics. While celebrities sport their moral vanity with white ribbons, thousands of ordinary Americans who donated to Prop 8 are being targeted in a vile campaign of intimidation for having supported a measure that, in essence, ratified the crucial relation between marriage and childbearing. Some in California have lost their jobs over it; others worry about an unhinged stranger showing up at the door. Who was it who predicted that if fascism ever came to the United States, it would come in the guise of liberal egalitarianism?
And when history is written, people like Mullarkey will no longer be understood to be “private citizens” who are simply “ratif[ying] the crucial relation between marriage and childbearing,” but perpetrators of hate who don’t believe all of mankind is truly created equal. On the next page, read what some wrote to Mullarkey (perhaps one of the comments is your own?):

• Eat shit and die, c–.
Eat c– and die, bitch.
You right-wing, heterosupremacist t–.
You are the moral equivalent of a Jewish Nazi. Roast in hell, you filthy c–.

• You should apologize for your deceit. Stop using us as your subject matter in this incredibly exploitative manner. You must realize that your actions are no different than an artist depicting the black community contributing to white supremacist organizations.

• How dare you use gay people as inspiration and then stab these people in the back by fighting to limit their rights. You are a disgusting, pitiful, opportunistic bitch

• I don’t understand why you would want to deny love in this world, no matter what form it takes. I can’t imagine your motives, can’t imagine your hate.

• Our parades are not the only place you can fulfill your artistic vision. .??.??. You could visit the Hasidic community. You know, them? They wear “unusual” clothes, too. There are so very many freak shows you can enjoy in this world.

• Homosexuals rule the World of Creativity, and that is whom you just f–ed with!

• You represent the most despicable type of artist and human being. I do hope that you feel the financial pain your actions will bring. May God bless you with financial ruin for your treacherous deed.

• Because I love delusional bigots, I hope you never see another dime, bitch.

• The grave ungood you have done is not only to us, lesbians and gays who expect no less than full civil rights in our own country, but ironically to your own art career. Unless you don’t mind showing at Reverend Rick’s or perhaps at Brigham Young University.

• At first I thought there should be a special place in hell for people like you. But then I thought, maybe purgatory! A dull, nothing kind of Catholic nowhere. Just like you!

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42 Comments*

  • Eminent Victorian

    Thank you for posting this. I don’t need this woman’s head, or anything else, on a platter, but I think it’s rich for her to claim any offense when she makes her livelihood off of LGBT folks. To Hell with her.

  • sal

    simple,BOYCOTT HER!!!!!let her fade away ( not with one of our hard earned dollars)and let her take her right full place in history(wrong side of history)

  • Kit

    Cry me a fucking river.

  • Tallskin

    Well, i was on an OutRage! action in the UK. We infiltrated about 20 suited members into a Mother’s Guild type thing, to protest the presence at the gig of some homophobic chief police officer.

    Anyway, when the balloon went up, with gas powered foghorns blowing, whistles shrieking, gays being chased around the hall by security guards – several elderly ladies sitting near me said – “Gay people do themselves no favours”!!!

    Well, the issue then was not about being nice or being popular, it was to demonstrate power that when angry gays will BASH back and cause mayhem by using Non-Violent direct action against homophobes.

    And the issue now in the US is not about being liked or being cuddly, it also is about showing power and bashing back.

    Bash this bitch and bash her hard.

  • getreal

    I say for LGBT people and allies to keep an eye on her when she has a show call and voice your opposition with the gallery. This woman’s art financially supported bigotry since I abhor bigotry let’s all make sure her art stops making money or at least less money. Perhaps she will see her money could be better spent in the future.

  • Mr. Enemabag Jones

    This is the email I sent to her:

    Ms. Mullarkey,

    After reading the nauseating diatribe written by yourself and published in the Weekly Standard, I felt the need to correct you.

    You wrote:

    “Who was it who predicted that if fascism ever came to the United States, it would come in the guise of liberal egalitarianism?”

    Sadly, your ignorance towards equality for all Americans outshines your ignorance of your own country’s great writers. The quote is:

    “When fascism comes to America, it will be wrapped in the flag and carrying the cross.”

    And was written by Sinclair Lewis in 1935. Oddly enough, Ms. Mullarkey, you are what Mr. Sinclair feared; you have wrapped yourself in the flag and you’re carrying a cross to defend your anti-gay attitude.

    You have a right to donate to what ever cause you choose. Americans have the right to stop giving you money. Learn to accept that, Ms. Mullarkey.

    Secondly, you may believe that, “Prop 8 left intact all the legal advantages of civil union. It took nothing away.” You ignore the fact hat denying gay Californians the opportunity to marry was against the State’s constitution.

    By writing your article for the Weekly Standard, you have shown that yours was not a contribution to protect what you beleive, “ratified the crucial relation between marriage and childbearing.” But rather, was about supporting your anti-gay agenda.

    And lastly, Ms. Mullarkey, comparing gays to Nazis and brown shirts is ridiculous, considering what Nazis and brown shirts did to homosexuals. If this were 1939 Berlin, Ms. Mullarkey, you wouldn’t be marching to the ovens as you would have your readers believe; you’d be goose-stepping behind the SS looking for fuel for the ovens.

  • Bob

    Poor little bigot!

  • Lin

    How sad to live such a life… “vampire” is the perfect word. How incredibly sad.

    I agree with above posters: Boycott. Boycott this woman- speak of her NO MORE. Pass by any magazines that reference her name, ignore any comments about her work or opinions, and let her slide off the face of our planet. She doesn’t deserve to be recognized in any way, positive or negative. She deserves nothing.

  • Mark M

    It’s ok to hate people who hate you. It’s ok to make them feel unwelcome and unsafe. I am here to free you from the idea that you need to make your enemy feel ok. Show some self respect, and some regard for the little GLBT babies who come next. Make it uncomfortable and unwelcoming to display hatred to you and your loved ones. It’s not reasonable to ask the disenfranchized to make the powerful feel ok. Grow a pair.

  • atdleft

    Whah, whah, whah, cry me a river. Poor Miss Bigot “Artist” is crying because LGBT people won’t support her pro-H8 business. So what? For all their talk of “capitalism”, these “free marketeers” certainly throw a fit whenever we in the LGBT community freely decide not to spend our money in places that don’t welcome us.

  • Tim in SF

    What. A. Bitch.

  • Mr. Enemabag Jones

    It turns out Maureen equating queers to nazis is not new; she’s been doing it since 1987. Here is a site that well documents her decades old gay hate:

    http://bilgrimage.blogspot.com/2009/02/more-mullarkey-maureen-mullarkey-and.html

  • BobP

    I really got a kick out of reading that. This “alleged” artist sounds off her nut. She didn’t mind making money off the gay community by trying to be controversial with her subject matter (us), did she? Real artists don’t need a gimmick to succeed. She’s just a sham. She sure is getting alot of press, isn’t she?

  • Sam

    Shucks, my email to her wasn’t posted. well here it is anyways.


    Ms. Mullarkey,

    I don’t get it. You don’t know me. You don’t know anything about me. So why would you spend your money trying to hurt me? To take away my rights to equality under our system of laws? Maybe if you knew me, you wouldn’t hate me so much. Because it really does have to be hate, for someone to do what you have done.

    I am 24, born and raised mostly in California. I’ve always been a nerd really, never very good at sports, pretty much preferring to just read my sci fi books and play on the computer. I now work to eradicate Malaria using my Biology degree. I try my best to be a good person, friend, son, brother, and husband. You see I got married this last summer, to my partner of 5 years. He and I met when we were both 19, and have been in a loving monogamous relationship ever since. I’ll state the extremely obvious here, and say, yup we are gay. I never got a choice in this, much like you never got a choice in your sexuality. Some things just are.

    We have never marched in those parades you are fond of painting. We have recently marched in several protests. Not all gays are the same. In fact, what my husband and I want most is to be left alone. But we can’t just live our lives, when people who don’t even know us, who don’t even live in our state, donate to steal our equality.

    You see we pay taxes, we are a part of this government as much as anyone. When the government entered in to granting marriage licenses, it has to do so for all its people. All we want are the same rights to hospital visits/inheritance/business laws, that any other committed couple receives.

    Finally, theres a point that I feel needs to be made clear again. Gay people exist. We do. It doesn’t really matter what mechanism makes someone gay. All that matters is that we are gay, and that we are your fellow human beings. There is no logical reason to exclude people from the rights of society, when nothing they are doing harms anyone. Two adults entering into a union harms no one, and should be no one else’s business.

    Thanks for your time, and please don’t attack us again.

  • Miss Understood

    Yes, everyone who doesn’t like you is a fascist. Puh-leez.

  • greybat

    @Mr. Enemabag Jones: Interesting link, Mr. Jones! so she’s not only a Palinite, but a Swift-Boater as well!

  • An Other Greek

    omg

    she is an art critic for the New York Sun !!!

    sad though her work is “3rd rate” which of course is below second rate…

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  • Adam

    I didn’t want to be the one to say it, but it must be said. In defending her contribution, she is full of malarkey.

  • Phoenix (The Museum of Bad Art is the Foyer of the Men's room)

    Oh, boooo, hooo! Pwoor, Pwoor Maureen! Dah big nasty, mean old queers aren’t giving her money anymore! Boooo, hoooo, hoooo! How mean and unfair of them not to fund anti-gay bigotry! Wah, Waaaaaaaaaaah, Whaaaaaaaaa!!!

  • boarderthom

    Compare and contrast; one of my high school english teachers drilled that into my head.?Compare and contrast: Slave rights and gay rights; the contrasts are easy, the comparisons are profound. Slaves could not get legally married either. They could not create and sign contracts, and what is marriage mostly (legally speaking) but a huge contract with thousands of rights and responsibilities.?Navanethem Pillay, the United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights spoke there last year saying, “That just like apartheid laws that criminalized sexual relations between different races, laws against homosexuality are increasingly becoming recognized as anachronistic and inconsistent both with international law and with traditional values of dignity, inclusion, and respect for all.”?Apartheid: A system of laws applied to one category of citizens in order to isolate them and keep them from having privileges and opportunities given to all others.?Stop gay apartheid.

  • Austin

    Well, the bitch had it coming.

  • Landon Bryce

    Suggested Fund Raiser:

    Raise money to buy up as much of her work as possible. Ask all gays who who own her work to donate it.

    Sell tickets to the bonfire.

    Burn it all

    Destroy as much of her art, her work, her soul, her legacy as possible.

    Point and laugh.

    Dance on the grave of her shitty art.

    Make a lot of money.

    And spend it all to help win our equality.

  • david kcmo

    Why cant she just have the hate beaten out of her? Thats exactly what she wants, so she can finally like an oppressed arteeeest. She longs for earned pretention.

  • duckie

    @Adam: funny, i wasn’t even pronouncing her name in my head. heh!

  • petted

    @Landon Bryce: We could always feed it to goats, they’ll eat anything even her rather shoddy art.

  • Attmay

    God that “art” of hers is butt-fugly. That “painting” looks like Billy Joel in drag.

    It’s time to track down everything this cunt created and have a hell of a bonfire.

  • Sapphocrat

    Is that hateful old sow still squealing like a stuck pig?

  • Alexa

    It’s her hypocrisy that gets me. “Artists are not in the habit of imposing ideological conformity on one another or demanding it from others” – and yet she imposes her ideology on the gay community by denying us the right to marry the people we love, she demands WE conform to HER ideology.

  • Nick11

    @Mr. Enemabag Jones:

    That’s great thanks, I love it when people are able to be so article around an issue that gets me all worked up. Right on.

  • BillyBob Thornton

    funny thing about free speech, you may not like what you hear. When someone supports bigotry, they should be called out on it. period.

  • bobp

    In googling her I discovered that a gallery in Provincetown shows her work. This should be interesting, no?

  • alan brickman

    Don’t boycott artists …that is terrifying….

  • Sarina

    Why would an “artist” donate for a socially discriminating proposition like pro. 8 ? That’s what I want to know. Instead of playing the victim, Maureen Mullarkey should apologize for her homophobia. Her persecution, that I do not condone, is nothing compared to what gays and lesbians have suffered, at the hands of homophobes and traitorous friends.

  • Landon Bryce

    Alan Brickman:

    No, what is terrifying is the idea that anyone thinks artists who use their money to attack the subjects of their art should not be boycotted. Artists have moral duties, too.

  • Chris Sullivan

    Nnever heard of her prior to this and I’ve no doubt she is actually happy this occured because her name is being spread around more than before. I say, ignore her for the ignorant, petulant child she is and she’ll fade away into the obscurity she deserves.

  • Chris Sullivan

    She is free to express herself and we are free to ignore her, which, under the circumstances, would be perfectly appropriate.

  • Julia Zaychenko

    While I personally don’t agree with the virulence of some of the comments – hate against hate equals no one wins – it’s understandable that Mullarkey’s actions have inspired such a negative response, and she should be smarter than to complain when people attack her. The irony is too rich when someone who supports active persecution of a minority turns around and complains that the negative emotions caused by that support are persecuting her.

  • Mark

    Interesting tactic — If she receives anonymous notes, then they are dismissed. If she receives signed notes, then it is proof that the writers feel so much collective power that they couldn’t possibly be downtrodden and, therefore, don’t deserve to have their rights protected.

  • koalaboy

    I love hearing more about this lady. This is my stance on the matter.

    I do hate it that her personal information has been made public. I hate the choice that she made, but she has that right dammit. However, I would be proud to have my address and email released if I stood beside my actions… I would probably stick with issues in my home state of Tennessee rather than get embroiled in another state’s business.

    “I do not agree with what you say, but I’ll defend to the death your right to say it.” – Voltaire

    I’m gay and hope to be married with the same rights as everyone one day, but the vote was cast in CA and what more could you ask for? I say the people voted and that has to stand. I think the smartest thing for people opposed to our rights is to allow our equality to happen. Then the hate mail will stop and happiness will flourish.

  • Sapphocrat

    @koalaboy: “I do hate it that her personal information has been made public.”

    Koalaboy, remember: California’s campaign finance disclosure is the result of a proposition voted into law by the people of California (just as Prop 8 was!). It’s been on the books since the 1970s, and everybody who makes a monetary contribution knows his/her information will be public (or should know, and if they don’t, then they’re the fools for thinking otherwise).

    So it’s not as if Malarkey– er, Mullarkey — and everyone bitching about being “outed” by us horrible homos has anything to complain about.

    If the haters don’t want anyone to know their position, they do have a choice not to fund hate campaigns. Nobody’s holding a gun to their heads.

    Frankly, the louder they bitch, the shakier their ground; if they’re so strong in their convictions, shouldn’t they be proud to stand up for their beliefs? Nope, they’re pathetic cowards, who want to persecute us from under the cover of darkness.

    Like you, I am “proud to have my address … released”… As a matter of fact, I’ve published my own name, on my own blog, and invited the haters to “out” me as a proud defender of equality, all they like.

  • Bruno

    She’s Frida Kahlo without the brains, beauty, talent, or following. I guess I’d be wanting some PR too.

  • Cee

    Her response is amusing. She’s such a pseudo intellectual, talking about “epithets and ad hominems” and “invective and jackboot tactics.” Spare us with your intellectual bullshit. I can’t take her seriously until she takes a Reading and Comprehension course. Maybe if they had a “Common Sense” course she’d get it. You made your bed Maureen. Now it’s time to lie in it.

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